Marriage Preparation

Weddings at St. Robert Parish

Welcome!  We are delighted that you are considering St. Robert Parish for your wedding. Your wedding ceremony is yours, and you will have much to say about what goes into it, but it is also an official celebration of the Roman Catholic Church. You are the ministers of the Sacrament of Marriage in which you promise each other lasting love and fidelity. From this date forward, you continue to minister this sacrament to each other. The priest or deacon on behalf of the whole Church witnesses and blesses your marital covenant. The Church is also present at your ceremony through your family and friends you have invited.

The preparation process follows the guidelines set forth in The Pastoral Guidelines for Marriage Preparation by the Wisconsin Catholic Bishops Conference and those set forth in the canons governing marriage that are contained in the Canon Law of the Roman Catholic Church.

Your wedding ceremony is not only special and sacred to the two of you, but it is also special and sacred to St. Robert Parish. It is to this end that we, St. Robert Parish, will work together with you in accomplishing this goal.

—Fr. Dennis Dirkx

Setting Your Wedding Date
Prior to selecting a hall for your reception, please check with the parish secretary regarding the availability of the date you are considering.  St. Robert Parish offers two time slots for weddings per weekend: 4:00 pm on Fridays and 1:30 pm on Saturdays.  The church is reserved for two hours for each wedding, with one half hour before for set-up and one half hour afterwards for pictures, etc.  Weddings are not scheduled during the liturgical seasons of Advent or Lent or on Sundays.  Preparation for a wedding at St. Robert requires the time span of six months to one year.  To make an initial contact, please call the parish office at 414-332-1164.

Preparation Process

What does the preparation include? The initial session involves the completion of the Pre-Nuptial Questionnaire and a detailed explanation of the preparation process.  The couple must obtain recent copies of their baptismal certificates from the church of baptism as well as copies of the certificates of Confirmation.  A recent copy of a baptismal certificate is one issued within the last six months.

A mentor couple (called a “FOCCUS couple”) from the parish will schedule two or three meeting with the couple.  The couple schedules the Engaged Enrichment Day through the Milwaukee Archdiocese.

Because of the spiritual nature of the sacrament of marriage, each engaged couple participates in a spirituality of marriage session with either the pastor or pastoral associate.

A liturgy planning session is scheduled with Matt Zembrowski, Director of Liturgy and Music.  Because of the intimate connection between the union of marriage and the bond of the Eucharist, Catholic parties (and Catholics marrying non-Catholic Christians) celebrate the Rite of Marriage within a Mass. Catholics marrying non-Christians celebrate the Rite of Marriage within the context of the Liturgy of the Word.

The wedding rehearsal is then scheduled for the evening before the wedding. The marriage license must be brought to the wedding rehearsal.  Click here for information on obtaining your marriage license.


For more information
Call Debe in the parish office at 414-332-1164 ext. 3010